Distracted: Comparision

James 3:13–18 contrasts earthly wisdom, marked by envy and selfish ambition, with heavenly wisdom that produces peace and righteousness. Verse 16 shows that comparison and striving for human approval always lead to disorder and brokenness. But when we shift our focus to God’s approval, as Galatians 1:10 teaches, we find freedom from the trap of comparison. Living with God’s wisdom brings contentment, peace, and a harvest of righteousness in our lives and relationships.


Sermon Outline
1. The Symptoms of Comparison
2. The Source
3. The Result
4. True Wisdom


Small Group Questions

1. Read James 3:13–18 together. What stands out to you about the difference between earthly wisdom and heavenly wisdom?
2. How have you seen comparison create “disorder” in your life, family, or workplace?
3. Galatians 1:10 says we cannot live to please both people and God. What are some ways we might unknowingly slip into living for people’s approval?
4. In what areas do you feel most tempted to compare yourself to others (social media, work, church, relationships)?
5. How does comparison rob us of peace and joy?
6. What would it look like for you to live from God’s approval instead of striving for man’s approval in this season?
7. How can we encourage one another in this group to walk in God’s wisdom rather than in comparison?