Distracted: Act Like Men

Men, the world is desperate for men who won’t drift with the culture but will stand firm in Christ. In just two verses, Paul gives us a battle plan: be watchful, stand strong, act with courage, and lead with love. This is God’s call for us—not just to be men, but to be godly men who rise up for our families, our church, and our world.

1 Corinthians 16:13-14


 1. Be Watchful

• What are some common “blind spots” or distractions that keep men from being spiritually alert?
• In what areas of your life (work, home, personal) do you need to be more watchful right now?

2. Stand Firm in the Faith

• Where do you feel pressure to compromise your faith or values?
• How can men encourage one another to stand firm when it’s tough?

3. Be Courageous

• What does courage look like in everyday life as a man — not just in big moments, but in daily responsibilities?
• Can you share a time when you had to act with courage in your faith, family, or workplace?

4. Be Strong

• What’s the difference between worldly strength and biblical strength?
• How can men learn to depend on God’s strength rather than just their own?

5. Do Everything in Love

• Why do you think Paul ends with love after calling for strength and courage?
• How can men balance being strong leaders while also being loving husbands, fathers, brothers, and friends?

6. Personal Application

• Which of the five commands (watchful, firm, courageous, strong, loving) do you feel strongest in? Which one do you most need to grow in?
• What is one step you can take this week to “stand like a man” in Christ?